"All healing is first a healing of the heart.”
- Carl Townsend
Have you been asked “Why aren’t you over it?” or “When are you planning to move on?”
You’re in the right spot. We’re kicking off our next book club group!
Of Course You’re Not Over It!
Healing From Betrayal Bookclub
One Webinar
eBook 30 Days, 30 Ways
Four Weekly Zoom Meetings
Begins April 20th 6:30 PM EST
Whether you have been impacted by betrayal that resulted in divorce or have chosen to stay in your relationship,
Of Course You’re Not Over It will provide you with a guide to help you along your journey of rebuilding your Self.
After betrayal, we need connection with others who are working to heal from the pain caused by betrayal, deceit, and infidelity.
Join other women as we support each other through 30 Days, 30 Ways
April 20
April 27
May 11
May 18
6:30-8 PM EST each week
30 Days, 30 Ways
Reclaiming Your Self
after Betrayal
If you're not over it, there is a reason.
What are the questions that keep you up at night? Do they intrude on your thoughts or seem to shut you down?
Do you question your worth from the betrayal? Do you still feel raw?
When betrayal happens, people are often told to move forward quickly. They hear things like "try not to think about it", "focus on the future,” or ‘you need to forgive.”
But betrayal does something deeper to us than most people realize.
It can disrupt your sense of safety, causing your thoughts to keep circling back to what happened, and your body might stay tense or alert.
You may question your own judgment or feel like a part of your identity has been shaken.
This 30‑day program was created to give you a place to begin making sense of that impact. Each day offers one step and one way to help you move through the layers of betrayal to create your pathway to healing.
$39.00
$39.00!
Registration is limited so participants can take part in live discussion sessions during the program
Program Summary
The 30 Days, 30 Ways ebook is full of helpful strategies
One Webinar
Four live meetings over Zoom to discuss the book and support each other as we navigate betrayal
Your Pathway to Healing and
Reclaiming your Self
April 20-May 18
Of Course You’re Not Over It! is an online educational and support program that includes webinars, discussions, and the 30 Days and 30 Ways ebook.
Here’s what you’ll get!
30 Daily Healing Points
Each day, you will be exploring one common response to betrayal, such as intrusive thoughts, anger, grief, self‑doubt, hypervigilance, sleep disruption, and the shattering of identity.
30 daily reflection prompts
Every lesson includes a journal prompt or exercise designed to help you connect the idea to your own experience in a way that feels manageable rather than overwhelming.
30 ‘do-able’ steps
Each day also offers one small action you can take to steady your nervous system, rebuild self‑trust, and respond to the experience with more clarity.
We’ll create a pathway to navigate the emotions and struggles that betrayal has thrown at you.
Registration is limited so all participants can take part in live discussion sessions during the program.
What others have said…
‘What just happened?’
‘Is this real?’
‘What do I do now?
Discovering betrayal brings a storm of different emotions:
disbelief, confusion, self-doubt, anger, sadness, and profound emotional pain.
Betrayal is like a tornado ripping through your home, uprooting all the security and stability you've known as a spouse and partner.
With little warning, your life may be turned upside down, violently shaken, and slammed around in pure chaos.
You may have been unable to think clearly in the aftermath.
Whether the betrayal was through infidelity (affairs, hook-up sites, pornography/prostitution), substance abuse and addiction, financial irresponsibility, abandonment, or escalating verbal/emotional abuse, you find yourself asking : "What just happened?" and "How did I get here?".
You’re not alone! Come travel with others who are picking up the pieces and reclaiming their lives!
Hi, I’m LaDonna, and I know the ugliness of betrayal.
The smile you see on my face is genuine now.
The smile you see on my face today is genuine.
In older pictures, even when I was smiling, you could see the worry and stress.
Like many people who discover betrayal, I lived through disbelief, confusion, self-doubt, anger, grief, and deep pain.
I’m also a psychotherapist. As I rebuilt my own life, I began studying betrayal trauma more deeply and eventually focused my work on helping others make sense of what happens when trust is broken.
Healing takes time, and it asks us to move through many layers of emotion and truth. Yet people do find their footing again. With the right understanding and guidance, it is possible to rebuild a life that feels steady and real.
I welcome you to join us!
Of Course You’re Not Over It!
Together, in our community, we will create your path to a strong, courageous, and authentic version of your Self.
Registration is limited so participants can all take part in live discussion sessions during the program. I look forward to seeing you there!
Is this program right for me?
Of Course You’re Not Over It! focuses on assessing the impact of betrayal on your self-concept and emotional/physical well-being, offering steps to reclaim your Self and a direction for rebuilding your life after your ‘Lifequake’.
This program is right for you if:
• you keep thinking "I should be further along by now"
• your mind keeps returning to the betrayal
• your body still reacts with tension, anger, or dread
• you question your judgment or feel unlike yourself
• you want guidance that is clear, thoughtful, and trauma informed
• you are looking for something structured that does not overwhelm you
This Program is not right for you if:
You are seeking therapeutic interventions that would be delivered in a mental health setting. This program can be used as a companion to therapy. Talk with your therapist about this program and decide whether you are ready for the education and support it provides.
Finding a therapist who specializes in Betrayal Trauma and Divorce Recovery could be very helpful for you. We’ll be here waiting when you are ready!
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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As a self-study course, you will be working through these steps in the privacy of your home. No self- disclosure is required or expected. I encourage you to join the webinars and Facebook group to connect with others who are working on their recovery from betrayal, but you decide what you want to share. The same holds true for the support group option.
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You are welcome to join us and participate at the level that you are ready. You can watch the webinars at your own pace and use the material as you are ready. No one will ever pressure you to participate. We are here to meet you where you are in providing support and knowledge that you can access as you are ready.
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I expect respect for one another at all times. That includes no screenshots, no sharing outside of the group, as well as no critical, judgmental or shaming interactions. If there are violations, they will be addressed and appropriate steps taken for the safety of the group. You can choose your screen name as well as determine how you would like to interact with others. You can create a separate Facebook page for your interaction in the group as a way to protect your privacy. You can also use an alias in the webinar calls.
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This program works to help you navigate the steps to healing from betrayal. People from all beliefs are touched by betrayal. This group focuses on providing the knowledge of the healing tools that will benefit everyone, regardless of religious beliefs.
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Support systems are so important in healing that I believe we all can find benefit in the connection with others. If you would like to be with others who are working to heal from betrayal and rebuild their lives, you are at the right place!
Many women have found that joining a support group is a great adjunct to working with an individual therapist as it gives you a community of women who are accessible, understand your struggles and are eager to connect with and support one another.
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This program helps you identify skills that you have and or can develop that will help you pinpoint areas where you can grow while gaining the support of others who are working on the same skills. The information you learn about yourself and through the webinars may be beneficial in helping you and your therapist tailor treatment to your specific needs.
Support groups are highly effective at giving people “in the same boat” a support network. The group members can help people feel less alone with their problem and can also provide a lot of practical problem-solving advice that might help a group member manage their situation more effectively.
You may consider adding individual therapy or group therapy in addition to the support group.
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While this program does not provide tools for decision making about staying or leaving your marriage and can use the information on self-care and boundary setting in your decision-making process.
Participating in the group to work on rebuilding your Self, boundaries and healing while you make your decision may benefit you in developing the necessary strength and knowledge to make the decision that is best for you.
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No.
This program focuses on moving forward and forging that pathway to healing.
Therapy traditionally addresses the dynamics in your life and relationship that are not working for you.
This program gives you direction to where you want to be and are ready to build the life you would like to have.
So, while it is not a therapeutic intervention, it can be a wonderful supplement to work that you do with a therapist, as a stand-alone psycho-educational program or a supplement after you have completed therapy.
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You will receive recordings of the webinars and the digital copy of the 30 Days, 30 Ways eBook. Downloads will be disabled 14 days after the program so be sure you have them on your computer!
The Facebook group will be active through the program.
You cannot rush the reconstruction of the heart.
-Marissa Donelly
You didn’t deserve the betrayal but you DO deserve the support and restoration of a community of women who are facing the same pain.
You deserve direction on how to move forward to the life that will bring you happiness, contentment and Self worth..

