"All healing is first a healing of the heart.”

- Carl Townsend


Have you been asked “Why aren’t you over it?” or “When are you planning to move on?”

You’re in the right spot. We’re kicking off our next book club group!


Of Course You’re Not Over It!

Healing From Betrayal Bookclub


One Webinar

eBook 30 Days, 30 Ways

Four Weekly Zoom Meetings

Begins April 20th 6:30 PM EST


Whether you have been impacted by betrayal that resulted in divorce or have chosen to stay in your relationship,

Of Course You’re Not Over It will provide you with a guide to help you along your journey of rebuilding your Self.


After betrayal, we need connection with others who are working to heal from the pain caused by betrayal, deceit, and infidelity.

Join other women as we support each other through 30 Days, 30 Ways

  • April 20

  • April 27

  • May 11

  • May 18

6:30-8 PM EST each week


30 Days, 30 Ways

Reclaiming Your Self

after Betrayal

If you're not over it, there is a reason.

What are the questions that keep you up at night? Do they intrude on your thoughts or seem to shut you down?

Do you question your worth from the betrayal? Do you still feel raw?

When betrayal happens, people are often told to move forward quickly. They hear things like "try not to think about it", "focus on the future,” or ‘you need to forgive.”

But betrayal does something deeper to us than most people realize.

It can disrupt your sense of safety, causing your thoughts to keep circling back to what happened, and your body might stay tense or alert.

You may question your own judgment or feel like a part of your identity has been shaken.

This 30‑day program was created to give you a place to begin making sense of that impact. Each day offers one step and one way to help you move through the layers of betrayal to create your pathway to healing.

$39.00




$39.00!

Registration is limited so participants can take part in live discussion sessions during the program

Program Summary

  • The 30 Days, 30 Ways ebook is full of helpful strategies

  • One Webinar

  • Four live meetings over Zoom to discuss the book and support each other as we navigate betrayal


Your Pathway to Healing and

Reclaiming your Self

April 20-May 18

Of Course You’re Not Over It! is an online educational and support program that includes webinars, discussions, and the 30 Days and 30 Ways ebook.


Here’s what you’ll get!

30 Daily Healing Points

Each day, you will be exploring one common response to betrayal, such as intrusive thoughts, anger, grief, self‑doubt, hypervigilance, sleep disruption, and the shattering of identity.

30 daily reflection prompts

Every lesson includes a journal prompt or exercise designed to help you connect the idea to your own experience in a way that feels manageable rather than overwhelming.

30 ‘do-able’ steps

Each day also offers one small action you can take to steady your nervous system, rebuild self‑trust, and respond to the experience with more clarity.

We’ll create a pathway to navigate the emotions and struggles that betrayal has thrown at you.

Registration is limited so all participants can take part in live discussion sessions during the program.


What others have said…

  • "I consider LaDonna a true healer in our field."

  • LaDonna is one of my most respected colleagues in the field of Psychology.

  • LaDonna's work will change the healing process for women.

  • “Each of the lessons are rich in helpful material. I listen to the videos several times through the week.”

  • “LaDonna “gets it”! Her connection to us was genuine and the lessons and worksheets were so helpful. It’s like she read my mind of what I needed even when I wasn’t sure what that was.”

‘What just happened?’

‘Is this real?’

‘What do I do now?

Discovering betrayal brings a storm of different emotions:

disbelief, confusion, self-doubt, anger, sadness, and profound emotional pain. 

Betrayal is like a tornado ripping through your home, uprooting all the security and stability you've known as a spouse and partner.

With little warning, your life may be turned upside down, violently shaken, and slammed around in pure chaos.

You may have been unable to think clearly in the aftermath.

Whether the betrayal was through infidelity (affairs, hook-up sites, pornography/prostitution), substance abuse and addiction, financial irresponsibility, abandonment, or escalating verbal/emotional abuse, you find yourself asking : "What just happened?" and "How did I get here?".

You’re not alone! Come travel with others who are picking up the pieces and reclaiming their lives!

Hi, I’m LaDonna, and I know the ugliness of betrayal.‍ ‍

The smile you see on my face is genuine now.

The smile you see on my face today is genuine.

In older pictures, even when I was smiling, you could see the worry and stress.

Like many people who discover betrayal, I lived through disbelief, confusion, self-doubt, anger, grief, and deep pain.

I’m also a psychotherapist. As I rebuilt my own life, I began studying betrayal trauma more deeply and eventually focused my work on helping others make sense of what happens when trust is broken.

Healing takes time, and it asks us to move through many layers of emotion and truth. Yet people do find their footing again. With the right understanding and guidance, it is possible to rebuild a life that feels steady and real.

 

I welcome you to join us!

Of Course You’re Not Over It!

Together, in our community, we will create your path to a strong, courageous, and authentic version of your Self. 

Registration is limited so participants can all take part in live discussion sessions during the program. I look forward to seeing you there!

 

Is this program right for me?

Of Course You’re Not Over It! focuses on assessing the impact of betrayal on your self-concept and emotional/physical well-being, offering steps to reclaim your Self and a direction for rebuilding your life after your ‘Lifequake’.


This program is right for you if:

• you keep thinking "I should be further along by now"

• your mind keeps returning to the betrayal

• your body still reacts with tension, anger, or dread

• you question your judgment or feel unlike yourself

• you want guidance that is clear, thoughtful, and trauma informed

• you are looking for something structured that does not overwhelm you

This Program is not right for you if:

  • You are seeking therapeutic interventions that would be delivered in a mental health setting. This program can be used as a companion to therapy. Talk with your therapist about this program and decide whether you are ready for the education and support it provides.

    Finding a therapist who specializes in Betrayal Trauma and Divorce Recovery could be very helpful for you. We’ll be here waiting when you are ready!

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

You cannot rush the reconstruction of the heart.

-Marissa Donelly

You didn’t deserve the betrayal but you DO deserve the support and restoration of a community of women who are facing the same pain.

You deserve direction on how to move forward to the life that will bring you happiness, contentment and Self worth..